My Sinatra with a Big Band

2hr. 25min. (1 intermission)


A great show - and a night to remember

We had a table for four – and ALL enjoyed Cary's show on Mother's Day Weekend 2015. Cary Hoffman has a tremendous talent -- more than words can express! We went with our mom, who turned 92 that weekend, and, after we got home, just before she went to sleep, she said, "I'll never forget tonight as long as I live! It was such a wonderful show!!! I thank you so much for this!" My nephew, who is 21, and has a high bar for everything, thoroughly enjoyed the show. My sister, who was exhausted beyond all-get-out before we left the house, perked up , LOVED the show, and was so glad we went. Cary Hoffman made us all so very happy!!! We were all floating on air all evening from the high he gave us! As a side note: We thought our table had both the youngest and the oldest people in the audience: 21 and 92. That's pretty broad demographic appeal!!!

My Sinatra

Loved this show. Mr. Hoffman is a talented singer and entertaining comedian. I would recommend this show to anyone who wants to have a great time. All the seats in the theater are great and it was well worth the money.

My Sinatra

A charming one-man show about growing up idolizing a star and wanting to be someone else...something I think anyone can relate to. It was great to hear Hoffman recount his life story and how Sinatra inspired and effected him along the way, also learned quite a bit about Sinatra himself. Really a nice night out in a great intimate space. If you're looking for a heartfelt story with a timeless soundtrack - this is it.

My Sinatra, A Musical About Obsession

"I know what youre thinking... why is a guy on Medicaid who looks like a Rabbi doing a Sinatra show?" Its with this observation that Cary Hoffman begins the show, and its a funny and charming show indeed. My Sinatra is a tribute for Sinatra lovers by a Sinatra lover. Clearly the man is obsessed, as a young boy choosing to stay in his room playing his records rather than playing with the kids outside. It aint normal, he never claims to be, and that is the point. Through the poignancy of his autobiographical tale, weaving in Sinatra classics accompanied by a very capable pianist and a capable orchestral track! Mr. Hoffman entertains and charms the crowd. The reviewer who was disappointed that "its just not enough" perhaps is missing the point; Its not a big show, not intended to be... Its in a cabaret-sized theater, not Sinatras Sands, nor Mamet-styled psychoanalysis. Its a man who evangelizes Sinatra, imperfectly, a bit unpolished, but with passion to spare.

My Sinatra Is a Downer

My Sinatra: A Musical About Obsession, now playing at the Triad Theatre, comes across as more of a ?work in progress? than a fully realized musical tribute to Frank Sinatra. Based upon the successful national PBS special, My Sinatra ? The Songs and the Stories, seen by more than ten million people in more than 70 cities, this updated rendition of that show attempts to explore the nature of Cary Hoffman?s fixation on Frank Sinatra by delving into Hoffman?s lower class Jewish upbringing in Long Island, the traumas he experienced from the deaths of his father and stepfather, his edgy relationship with his mother, his musical relationships with his uncles, and his Alexander Portney-ish adolescent and post-adolescent years. An attempt is made to accomplish this through Hoffman?s introspective monologues, interspersed with his renditions of some 30 classic Sinatra songs, including ?That?s Life,? ?Come Fly Away,? New York, New York,? ?The Lady Is a Tramp,? I?ve Got You Under My Skin? and ?My Way.? Unfortunately, it doesn?t quite work ? neither as an uplifting entertainment nor as an insightful psychological explanation of the nature of obsession. To be sure, Hoffman has a magnificent voice and he has, in several instances, done a superb job of capturing Sinatra?s style, timing, cadences and phrasing. But it?s just not enough. The PBS special benefited from having a big band on stage and, to paraphrase Hoffman himself as he expressed it in this show: ?It?s easy to sing Sinatra successfully with a big band behind you but it?s a lot harder with just a piano player.? That?s for sure. But unfortunately, in this show, Hoffman only has a piano player backing him up and, while the pianist, Hubert ?Tex? Arnold, is extremely talented in his own right, even he and Hoffman together are not sufficient to carry the whole thing off. Hoffman has much in his life to be proud of. He has written a hit off-Broadway show; he was a successful songwriter, producer, and personal manager; he is currently co-producing the TV show, ?Men of a Certain Age?; he is the former owner of Stand-UP NY Comedy Club; and he has performed the music of Frank Sinatra to audiences all over the world. Quite an impressive resume for a clearly talented individual. But, sadly, none of it seems to have been enough for Hoffman to have developed an integrated personality of his own nor to have become comfortable in his own skin and his obsession with Sinatra lingers as evidence of his attempt to adopt another?s persona because he is so unhappy or uncomfortable with his own. And it is that which turns this show into a downer, rather than a joyous entertainment. One leaves the theatre empathizing with Hoffman for his anguish rather than taking pleasure with him in his interpretation of Sinatra?s work. When he begins the show, he remarks that the show is not about Frank Sinatra but is about Cary Hoffman?s relationship to Sinatra and, if Hoffman had stuck to that objective, this show might have proved to be great fun since Hoffman is, after all, a very talented performer. Alternatively, if Hoffman had simply settled for being a Sinatra impersonator or interpreter, that might have worked too. But Hoffman tried to have it both ways and in doing so ended up with neither. Somewhere along the way, Hoffman lost his own way, sometimes delving into his own psyche and at other times attempting again to become Frank Sinatra himself which, of course, he is not. And he knows it: when he puts on Sinatra?s fedora late in the show, he remarks that it never did fit him. And yet, sadly, he keeps trying to make it fit. When he ends the show with Sinatra?s ?My Way,? the most poignant thing about it is that Hoffman didn?t do it ?his way?; he just kept persisting in trying to do it ?Sinatra?s way.? Hoffman?s better than that but if he doesn?t believe it himself, we won?t believe it either. I have posted my reviews of several other Broadway, off Broadway and off off Broadway plays on my blog

Hilarious and poignant!

He had me laughing and crying at the same time! He is very entertaining and sings just like Sinatra- I was amazed!, Scott Siegal

"Of the many Sinatra related shows weve seen, this is the one that seems most worthy of an off-Broadway run."

Jackie Mason

"The best Sinatra singer in the world."

New York Post

"Cary Hoffman is an amazing talent, like Sinatra in his prime."

RE:The New York Times

"Dead on."